Ever wondered how a sex coach decides to make sex their job? Athena Mae found her unlikely calling as a teenager, when friends came to her with their questions. Then she started teaching body-positive sex education. This is what 20 years of shedding myths about sex and body size has taught her.
Originally published on Persephone Magazine. Please note: Fat sex is a very big issue heh. Because my area of expertise is limited to sex with size difference as a woman with a vagina, I chose not to explore other areas of fat sex, such as the mechanics of two fat people having sex or trans fat sex for women without vaginas. I welcome all here with that experience to speak up and contribute if they feel comfortable. Sometimes that made me feel more at ease, but mostly it became tedious, distracted me from feeling sexy, and annoyed the crap out of my partner who just wanted to see his hot girlfriend naked. Well, he totally knew how fat I was, and guess what.
What Causes A “Fat” Vaginal Area and Is This Normal?
The notion of vaginal tightness holds a special place in our culture. When comedian Nikki Glaser recently pretended to interview other girls to date her boyfriend as part of their open relationship, vagina tightness was the key vetting criteria. Strangely, all the candidates insisted they were extremely tight— too tight, even.
Mary Magdalene, aka xomarym, from Toronto, makes her living posing online, with , followers on her Instagram profile. To achieve her unique look, she's had a brow lift, fat transferred to her cheeks and lips twice , three nose jobs, three boob jobs, twenty dental veneers and countless lip fillers. She says she now "loves everything about" herself, but that it hasn't all been plain sailing.