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One of the more common and frightening feelings associated with starting a lifestyle journey is jealousy. Society often encourages jealousy in relationships. Think about all those rom-com movies where the guy has no idea how much he cares until he sees the object of his desire being swept off her feet by a new suitor. We personally find this idea pretty crazy. Why on earth should such an unpleasant emotion be the hallmark sign that you sufficiently love your partner? Life is too short to spend feeling jealous; we feel that our time is better spent loving and supporting each other as we travel together on an honest and open path.

We have rules that need to be followed. Safety is always key both sex safety and MDK safety. My husband and I are open. We both expressed interest in incorporating others in the bedroom, early on. We eventually figured out that we were just fine not being around each other and having our own separate adventures. It takes constant dialogue.

When you think of romantic attachments, what comes to mind? For most of us, it is that special connection we have with our partner; that indescribable something that differentiates our relationship with our significant other from our other relationships. We do not feel the same or share the same bond with anyone else, and most of us have been taught that this attachment is the glue that holds our relationship together—that special secret bonding that makes the partnership so strong. While we have been taught that this emotional attachment is confined only to our spouse, most of us can also attest to feeling emotional attachments toward people other than our partner at one time or another. How is this possible, especially as it appears to counter what most of us have been taught about depositing only feelings for our partner into our emotional savings account, so to speak.

You have to 'play' in order to learn some major lessons from the game. It's the phenomenon of experiencing pleasure for oneself from the pleasure a person close to you experiences from their interactions with a third party. It turns solo experiences into joint experiences.